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Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Ah LOYALIST from DjKaywise ft Iyanya omg help! i cant stop dancing
Uh..i noticed i've been dancing uncontrollably all day so i checked again and i realized i've been dancing to this very jam from Naija's finest DjKaywise ft the pop sensation Iyanya hmm ya'll know i love to share but emm.. I actually cant share the link on here cause my site is having some technical issues so if you wanna download LOYALIST and need the link,go ff @DjKaywise on twitter and kindly ask for the link..jeez! Its so #Epic, feel free download and have fun dancing like i'm doing,thank me later.. muah!.................Gracias Por Leer!

Its LOYALIST! from DjKaywise ft Iyanya omg help! i cant stop dancing

The very Best of life's advice and Best of relationship advice
There's this one quote which can pass as the best advice in our everyday lives and also in our relationships,can you guess?........... .............here it is "DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU'LL HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU" does it actually explain anything to you? Let me make it clear, in life if you want the best and good for yourself you have to give your best to others and also be good to them and then everything naturally returns to you. And in your relationship aspect, if you cheat on your partner or do something really terrible and expect your love life to be awesome you're a joker cause what you have done to that person will likewise be done unto you by someone else you care about or will care about in the future..so if you want to avoid karma's visit,stick to this quote and favorite it............Gracias Por Leer!
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
Things You Shouldn't Say On A First Date
Ok now let's talk about this,I am friends with a nice variety of people, straight men and women and what I've learned from speaking with friends is this:- everyone is insane.The thing is, you have to meet someone for a while to really know the level of insanity you are about to experience while in a relationship with that person. It is OK. We are all crazy, so it is just all about finding out what type of insanity you enjoy being around the most but what I can't understand is how and why so many people are spilling their guts about everything on the first date. It is fine to be nuts. Obviously I've already established we all are looney anyway. At least be polite about it on the first date. You should ease into your craziness. If you break out with some stories that are too frightening on the first date, you will scare your potential new partner away. Basically, some of you are saying stuff on the first date you should keep to yourself. Now let me give you a clue of the kinda things you shouldn't spill on a first date,am sure you're eager to know.. *wink*
Don't say this(✗)--I've taken out several restraining orders on exes. I just seem to have bad luck!*)*
Don't say this(✗)My exes always seem to take out restraining orders on me,I just don't understand,i just like to stay in touch.*)*
Don't say this(✗)I can fart to the tune of "personally" by Psquare, Do you want to hear it?*)*
Don't say this (✗)I keep several exotic pets at my home,you should meet my skunk named rile, To be honest, i seem to have lost my squirrel at home somewhere. I am just hoping if he passed away, I will smell the dead body and find him soon*)*
Don't say this(✗)My child has the tendency to throw temper tantrums a lot. He might try to hurt you when you first meet him, but don't worry, his therapist says he is OK to be around new people again.*)*
Don't say this(✗)I feel like this first date is going so well, i can definitely hear wedding bells in our future!*)*
Don't say this(✗)I make the best sauce in the world shrimps, Do you want to come over for dinner Friday night?*)*
Don't say this(✗)My father is very overprotective of me, he likes to threaten my new friends with guns,don't worry it is usually not loaded. I mean, there was this one incident, but after he spent time in jail he really learned his lesson.*)*
Don't say this(✗)I have this weird pimple on my back. I am hoping if all goes well tonight, you can pop it for me.*)*
Don't say this(✗)Don't look now, but I see my ex at the table across the room. I want to tell you everything about that relationship now,I feel like I can trust you since this first hour has gone so well.*)*
Don't say this(✗)I tend to get really blackout drunk and do ridiculous things wherever I go,Can I get another drink over here?*)*
Don't say this (✗)basically, I just went out with you because it sounds like you make a lot of money,i am definitely ordering the lobster tonight.*)*
Don't say this(✗)I still live with my ex, but we don't sleep in the same room or anything most of the time,our lease is up in 6 months i hope that won't be a problem.
Arrrrrrghhh!!! Can you hear yourself talk??? You better not spill these craps on a first date or else you lost that partner,give yourself sometime before spilling what ever it is..don't talk too much not everyone loves a talkative hun?aha..thank me later!
Sunday, January 5, 2014
How Often Do You Pray?
So this is becoming a serious issue to ponder upon,i recently ran into this friend who complained she was having issues, to me they sounded minor but you know the saying "he who wears a shoe knows where it hurts" so i agreed it was indeed an issue for her and then i asked her if she's been praying about it and she said "pray?what has prayer got to do with this"? I was amazed at how much she de-values prayer so i felt i should ask you too how often you pray. Send your answers via e-mail and i'll share them.
Saturday, January 4, 2014
Wanna Keep Love Alive In Your Relationship? Learn How»
Want a love-filled relationship..? Do you want love decorating your relationship for a long time? Then you should also know the right steps to take in making that happen, how often do you PRAISE him/her?Praise is such a great gift, and it's so easy to give so look at the things that make your spouse and others unique and develop the habit of praising them for those special things.
Now, "Don't go into it alone" Welcome fresh insights of other perspectives from your partner,don't act like you know it all and by so doing making your spouse feel they're too daft to learn from.
Do you know that in a mutually satisfying relationship, both people's needs are expressed, and they have the flexibility to give and take? Practice it. Also take the honor of doing worthwhile things for you spouse,to show them how valuable they are to you. Please sweethearts don't stop loving,let the love be more than the wrongs and things will keep getting better.
Remember,Anger is your choice, we can choose to see its powerful potential for destruction and take steps to reduce it within us. Otherwise, it's and iceberg sinking our love, forgive and continue in one love.
If you want a long lasting relationship filled with love then you ought to have a better understanding of the motivations and actions that grow out of our basic personalities,this can help us achieve personal and marital satisfaction,understand the reasons behind your spouse's action and sort them out. Don't be too fast in misunderstanding your spouse it could ruin things for you. Lastly,Sharing deep feelings with each other is an emotional intercourse and it's vital in a relationship,don't leave the sexual satisfaction out of your marriage/relationship. Not all relationships are based on sexual satisfaction but for those who do,well..be good at it. Xo!
Hooray!Happy Birthday To Nollywood Actor Bobby Blaise
Hooray! Its a celebrity's birthday today,happy birthday to Nollywood's cute and award winning actor Bobby Blaise as he celebrates his 25th birthday today. Bobby is a cool and very down to earth guy,who hails from Imo State incase you're a little skeptical,bobby lives each moment like its the very last but not recklessly.
(*)HOBBIES: loves the gym,loves playing games,traveling,reading books and lover of sports.. Ladies you mind? Lol,have a blast bobby! From my team we say God has only begun with you,the best is yet to come. Happy birthday! Xo

Friday, January 3, 2014
8 Types Of Women That Men Don't Wanna Marry »are you one? Find out here
(Miss "Bossy Pants)": This woman usually can't help herself; she has bossy in her DNA. When a man first meets her, he might think this character trait is cute, for awhile. However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his second grade teacher, he will give this woman her walking papers that's "goodbye".*
(Miss "Playing Games With His Heart"): This woman thinks that being a game player will help her land a man. However, even though a man might be intrigued by a hard to get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straightshooter. If this woman doesn't remove Battleship from her repertoire quite quickly, she will be shown the door before she can even sink his vessel.*
(Miss "I Want To Change You)": This woman is lurking everywhere. She is the type of woman many men are the most leery of. (Of course, there are some men who love this woman because of their own insecurities.) She claims that she loves her guy just the way he is, but little by little, she chips away at just about everything about him. First, it's his wardrobe, then it's his taste in music. However, when she gets to his friends and his hobbies, she is usually kicked to the curb*.
(Miss "Suspiciously Jealous)": This woman is on edge all the time because she is very distrusting. Many times, she has been burnt in the past, so she is on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets this woman, he sees her as a damsel in distress and wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice to leave her because he can't go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else's crimes.*
(Miss "I Live For You And I Have Nothing Else Going On)": This woman is very difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he is flattered that she is so into him, but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by her. As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not just waiting by the door for him to come home,get busy!*
(Miss "I Speak To My Mother Five Times A Day About Everything)": This woman has her mother on speed dial and can't seem to make a decision or do anything without getting her opinion. When a guy first meets her, he thinks it's nice that she is so close to her family, but soon, he finds it to be way too much and the he gets sick of it and trust me when he gets sick of it? He gets so sick of having you as a girlfriend*
(Miss "Keeping Up With The everything"): This woman needs to be at least as good as everyone else she knows. She is constantly talking about what the other people do and what the other people have. This places a lot of undue pressure on her guy and eventually, he gets so so so sick!*
(Miss " I hate this and i hate that)"; Oh this woman complains about everything,men call it nagging! She nags even the shirt you wear,trust me girlfriend that man will so throw you outta the window one day cause your constant nagging is beginning to give him a migraine.*
Trust me girl, most men just want a happy and easy going woman who has good values, so just focus on putting the best YOU out there and you're on your way to becoming his dearly beloved bride. Xo!

Wanna Be The Perfect Girlfriend? Read How »
Being a good girlfriend can be tricky, especially at the beginning of a relationship. But whether you and your new boyfriend are still feeling each other out, or if you're approaching your five-year anniversary, there are still a number of tips to follow if you want to be a good girlfriend and to make your relationship thrive. To be a good girlfriend, you have to be loving and supportive while maintaining your independence.
Don't be too open at first. Easing into a relationship is about ensuring that there is plenty of space for the two of you to get to know one another and trust that you're right for one another. If you try too soon to "make" something more out of your relationship than it already is, premature pushiness can scare him away and spoil what is 'there' to be a good thing. Instead, be patient and realize that it takes time to nurture a solid and enduring relationship and While they say a way to a man's heart is through his stomach, this doesn't mean cooking him a three-course meal on the first date. You don't need to prove anything like this; you simply need to be present and engaged in listening, being attentive and sharing your interests. You also have to be honest with him,lying won't get you any close to perfection darling,it is equally important that you are honest with yourself. If you overreact or make a mistake,let down that ego sweetheart acknowledge your error and apologize. If you're feeling vulnerable or upset, you can sort through your feelings and talk them through with him in a peaceful manner.
And the most important thing here is that you will be open about your feelings as much as possible. If he does or says something that bothers you, be open about how it affects you, without being rude or asking him to change. Dearie be yourself,don't create a fake you just to impress him.Take an interest in his interests, Remember what he likes to do and what he likes to talk about. You don't have to act like you love his hobbies, but at least try to understand why he's such a fan of "that". Keep your relationship strong by bringing variety and diversity into the relationship. Try different and new things together. Relationships are about having fun together, learning together and growing together.Compliment him more than you criticize him,If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he won't look forward to seeing you and he'll start reconsidering being with you.Learn to compromise. If you want to be a good girlfriend, then you have to learn to compromise instead of fighting or being angry the second you don't get your way and darling please give him some space,yes i get,you always want to be around him right?yea its a good thing but sweetheart show him you have your own thing to do and not idle and jobless okay?Be affectionate,there are various ways to show your affection; some are more obvious than others and the way you approach this will depend on how openly affectionate you like to be personally. Finally girlfriend, don't wear jealousy all over you,show him you trust him and give your relationship some respect. Be the best girlfriend you can be okay? Xo!

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